Loyalty
The Power of Loyalty
Nurturing Meaningful Relationships
Would you consider yourself loyal? And before you get triggered by my question, let me just say that loyalty is a loaded word - its meaning, the interwoven traumatic experiences around loyalty that may have been passed on between generations, and the nuanced emotions each of us link to it 🥵. I don't know about you, but I already feel my chest contracting just thinking about this topic. Shall we perhaps reframe the term loyalty before delving deeper into it? What do you say? 🫥
In a world where everything is constantly changing, loyalty is a rare and precious commodity, yet safe to double-down on 💍, just like gold is a pretty safe investment even today, if you were to ask any of your uncles who deem themselves financial wizards. Whether it's loyalty to our loved ones, our friends, our ambitious multiyear project (I see you 😘), or our beliefs, it is something that should be treasured and celebrated. Loyalty is not just a feeling; it is a value that brings numerous benefits to our lives, including better mental health and overall well-being 🙌🏾.
Here are some reasons why loyalty matters and how you can enhance it in your life:
🫧 Loyalty builds trust and strengthens relationships. When we are loyal to someone, we show them that we are reliable and dependable... you can add those strengths to your résumé 😅. This helps to build trust, which is essential for any healthy relationship.
🫧 Loyalty provides a sense of security and belonging. Knowing that we have people who are loyal to us can make us feel safe and valued. This can boost our self-esteem and give us a sense of belonging. Because belonging and community are, in my unsolicited opinion, ⅔ of life's meaning 😏.
🫧 Loyalty fosters empathy and compassion. When we are loyal to others, we are more likely to understand their perspective and show compassion towards them. This can help us build deeper, more meaningful relationships 🤗.
🫧 Loyalty helps us overcome challenges. When we face difficulties in life, having people who are loyal to us can make all the difference. They can provide us with emotional support, encouragement, and motivation to keep going 🫣. Ask yourself, who are two people you can always count as part of your cheerleader squad?
🫧 Loyalty brings joy and happiness. Being loyal to someone and having them reciprocate that loyalty can bring a great sense of joy and happiness into our lives. It is a feeling of connection and belonging that cannot be matched. You know that feeling you get when your heart feels all fuzzy in anticipation of reading the daily check-in messages from a loved one whose kind messages feel like an extra layer of cake icing, sweetening your day instantaneously, even though that person is physically removed from you by many miles of the earth's circumference 🌍.
So, how can you nurture and enhance loyalty in your life? Here are 5 steps you can take:
🧬 Be honest and transparent. Honesty is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Be open and transparent with the people in your life, and they are more likely to reciprocate that loyalty.
🧬 Communicate effectively. Effective communication is key to building and maintaining strong relationships. Listen actively, be respectful, and express yourself clearly.
🧬 Show appreciation. Let the people in your life know how much you appreciate them. Express your gratitude and show them that their loyalty is valued.
🧬 Be supportive. Be there for the people in your life when they need you. Offer emotional support, help with practical tasks, and be a sounding board when they need to talk.
🧬 Be consistent. Consistency is key to building trust and loyalty. Be consistent in your actions and words, and follow through on your commitments. The c-word is a tough one... trust me ... I'm in a daily struggle with it, but it's one of those struggle trains that will ultimately be worth it.
Because loyalty is the strongest glue that will make our relationship last for a lifetime.
Your energy matters,
Negin
